We make a lot of decisions every day and, if we’re honest, not all of them actually have clear cut, objective right and wrong answers. To get past this, comedian Louis CK suggests a simple rule: if you’re 70% happy with a decision, just go for it.
There are a lot of factors that go into, say, buying and Android phone or an iPhone or to choose which company to work for, what part of the city to live in. No matter how much analysis we do, though, we’re probably gonna have problems—or discover benefits!—we didn’t expect along the way. So, unless the analysis will actually yield significant results, “good enough” may just be good enough:
These situations where I can’t make a choice because I’m too busy trying to envision the perfect one—that false perfectionism traps you in this painful ambivalence: If I do this, then that other thing I could have done becomes attractive. But if I go and choose the other one, the same thing happens again. It’s part of our consumer culture. People do this trying to get a DVD player or a service provider, but it also bleeds into big decisions. So my rule is that if you have someone or something that gets 70 percent approval, you just do it. ‘Cause here’s what happens. The fact that other options go away immediately brings your choice to 80. Because the pain of deciding is over.
And he continues,
“when you get to 80 percent, you work. You apply your knowledge, and that gets you to 85 percent! And the thing itself, especially if it’s a human being, will always reveal itself—100 percent of the time!—to be more than you thought. And that will get you to 90 percent. After that, you’re stuck at 90, but who the fuck do you think you are, a god? You got to 90 percent? It’s incredible!
Of course, there’s also something to be said for accepting that some faults are going to exist (particularly in regards to relationships). It’s smart to weigh your choices and make good decisions, but at the end of the day, nothing’s perfect right off the bat. You still have to put in some effort no matter how good the options are.